I don't care for Apple and the itunes concept either, but she would have to be in an isolated part of Greenland to not have someone else with an iPod willing to help her out. I think most babies born in the US are now issued an iPod aren't they?
The wife was asking me about portable MP3 players and I was explaining why I like the non-proprietary formats over Apple. Anyway the three kids, who have iPods glued to their ears, went together and bought her an iPod Nano for Christmas. Since she was going on a business trip they gave it to her early and set itunes up on her computer.
I guess my point is if someone bought an iPod they could get almost any neighbor kid or relative to help get itunes all set-up. While I love being able to D&D, set my own bit-rates, make my own playlists, etc., I think it'd be harder for someone to find help on one of the non-apple players. As much as I hate to say it, if she is going to be living away from you I think an iPod is the better choice since that is what most of her friends will probably have. Just my 2 cents....